My absolute favorite trauma thing is getting attracted to people I’m scared of,
I don’t have to necessarily know them, but strangers who remind me of abusers or seem scary to me,, but also thinking they’re hot and i? ??? wanna die ???
(via introvertedhigh)
listen to yourself and watch your language.
instead of saying “sorry for ranting”, say “thank you for listening to me”.
instead of saying “sorry that i am overemotional”, say “thank you for trying to understand something difficult”.
instead of saying “sorry if i am a burden”, say “thank you for the time and energy you invest in our friendship”.
good things will come when you realize you are not an apology.
(via imchristwofour)
i don’t know who needs to hear this but you don’t like him as much as you think you do & he doesn’t like you like you want him to
(via loviely)